Thursday, 9 January 2014

What should I do about my abusive wife

What should I do about my abusive wife

I think your wife was physically and emotionally abused by her parents when she was growing up. When she is tired and angry she does the same thing her parents did because it is deeply ingrained into her brain that this is how you deal with stressful situations.

She probably hates the way her parents treated her and if she realized she was doing the same thing to you she would try hard to change.

You need to help her to change by taking a stand. You need to talk to her about what she is doing and make it very clear that you will not accept it. Tell her that you will leave her if she keeps doing it.

Next time she threatens you tell her that her behavior is unacceptable. Tell her you are going to leave the house to give her time to calm down. If you are worried about the safety of your baby take her with you.

If you are thinking of leaving her then you need to gather evidence. Go and see the local police, tell them the problem and ask for advice. Next time your wife physically attacks you go, get the baby, go outside and call them. This will shock her into change and / or prove to be great evidence in court later.

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